- I have acne
- I am only 5'2
- My hair doesn't cooperate most days
- Curves are the furthest thing from describing my body
- My toes are short & stubby
- I have a chubby face
- My stomach is not flat
- I don't wear bikinis
- I have scars all over my body
- and most people would call this ugly
I'm not sure if this blog is me being hurt, or me taking the words I heard tonight with a grain of salt. Either way, I wish people would really think before they told a girl she was ugly...somehow that is one of the most hurtful words a girl can hear. I think I'd honestly prefer to be called a controlling bitch (which I also heard via "friends" telling Ryan how awful I was.)
So if there are any men reading my blog tonight...if you think a girl is beautiful -- tell her! She loves to hear it, and it makes her feel amazing. On the same note, if you think she's ugly -- do not say anything. Chances are she might just feel beautiful about herself until you say that...because that's how I felt tonight.
Anyway...guess we all have to step back and live off those simple grade school rules sometimes.